Photo of Lucinda wearing a red jumper and talking on her phone. She is smiling and sitting at a table with her laptop and notebook.

You know when you realise that something is not right, but you can’t put your finger on it. Your sparkle has faded and you wonder “Is this all that there is?”

You might be feeling stuck in a rut and unsure of what to do about it. Well you are not alone. Lots of us get stuck in the messy middle part of life. I cannot solve the messy part but I can help you to get unstuck.

Are you ready to live your life, by your rules and in your own way?

I don’t know about you, but I am constantly surprised by how fast time flies. We have all been busy living our lives and it feels like the passage of time sneaked up on us while we were not looking. Then boom, you are in the middle part and wondering what comes next. If you are perfectly happy where you are, then I doubt that you would be reading this website. If you are thinking that you want to shake things up a little, then read on.

You may find yourself thinking:

  • I want to change things but I don’t know how
  • I make a start but always slip back into old habits
  • I don’t have time to focus on what I want or need
  • I want to get some control back
  • I want to have new adventures
  • I want to defy expectations
  • I want to make my own rules
  • I want to be me

I am in my 50s, I know what feeling stuck is like and how hard it is to find the courage to do anything about it. I arrived in my 40s and found that I had lost sense of who I was and what I wanted my life to be like. Everything felt confusing and I did not know what to do about it. Lots of thoughts and feelings kept me stuck in place. I was in a job that I no longer enjoyed and the system made me feel like I needed fixing. 

I started to read and research around how things could be different. Slowly I began to learn more about myself and why I am uniquely me. I gained clarity about what mattered most to me and how to walk my why. I realised that a messy middle was perfectly fine. I realised that rules and should(s) do not always have to be obeyed.

I changed my career in my 40s and continue to learn, try new things, and adapt to live the life that I want. It is still messy at times but I am OK with that.


How can I help you?

I will guide you on your journey to work out what you want your life to be like, make your own rules and live life in your way

  • I will work with you to help you decide what you want your life to be like.
  • The next stage is to work on making your rules, so that you can test out strategies and discover what works for you.
  • We bring everything together so that you can make the changes you need to live a life filled with meaning and purpose.
  • This will help you to find positive ways to gain perspective, take action, and cope with whatever comes your way. You will be able to take messy in your stride.
  • I will work collaboratively with you and support you where you think you need it most. Be prepared to do some rewarding work and I will challenge you, when I think you can go even further.
  • I will keep you on the right track and help you to future proof your plans.

I can't wait to see where you go next.

Infographic to illustrate YOUR LIFE Where do you want to be? What do you want to prioritise? What is getting in your way? What is your one big thing? YOUR RULES What matters most? What can you change? You can set yourself free with new rules You can ditch the shaming “shoulds” and embrace the creative “coulds” Small changes can have a BIG impact YOUR WAY How do you want to be? Set your own agenda Test out your strategies and find out what works Tackle your fears and resistance to change Opening one door unlocks many more Future proof your plans

Think – Better

Decide – Smarter

Grow – Stronger

It's time to get excited for your future

Photo of Lucinda wearing a blue jacket. She is outside, smiling and sitting in front of a cherry blossom tree.

One-to-One Coaching

Click here to find out more.


What my clients say...